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project rachel - caring for yourself
Abortion is a life-changing event. Pregnancy creates a very chemically complex condition. Our bodies undergo tremendous hormonal changes and shifts. Abruptly ending a pregnancy leaves the body in a confused state. Some professionals say hormones will settle quickly, but lived testimony tells us otherwise. Your body needs to heal. Abortion is a shock to both body and spirit. It will take time for you to heal, so in the meantime, be gentle with yourself.
Are you bingeing on sweets, soda pop or chips? Eating junk foods may set up a chemical reaction in your body that is not good for you right now. When we eat sweets, our bodies feel better for a little while. However, when the sweets wear off, our blood sugar drops lower, and we must eat more sugar to feel better again. The difficulty with this cycle is that each time our blood sugar swings, it drops lower and lower, and we feel worse and worse. Eat balanced meals and nutritious snacks. A well-balanced meal contains protein, (as found in meat, fish or poultry-a serving size should be about the size of the palm of your hand or a deck of cards), fresh vegetables, and fruits.
If you do not have much of an appetite, try healthy snacks including cheeses, yogurt, nuts, and cold meats. Eating well will help you to feel better and give your body a chance to repair itself.
Sleeping
Are you getting any sleep? Take twenty-minute naps to help off-set the effects of severe sleep deprivation. Lack of sleep can make you feel worse, and may even lead to suicidal thoughts. Taking "power naps" will help you feel more refreshed.
Exercise
It is a good idea to get a little exercise, even if it is just walking to the end of the block. Exercise triggers our naturally occurring endorphins and makes us feel better.
Alcohol and Drugs
Alcohol and drugs may seem to alleviate your pain for a short while, but in truth, they are actually aggravating it. Keep away from drinking and drugs!
Your Due Date
Your due date may be an emotionally difficult time for you. This is an important date for you to mark. Some women report having odd physical symptoms at that time, such as unusually heavy bleeding, breast tenderness, and other menstrual discomforts.
Hope and Healing
Purchase a notebook and begin writing about the abortion experience and any nightmares you may have. If you are an artist, draw or paint. Getting your experience on paper will help free some of your emotional resources for other activities in your life.
Take life one moment at a time. With time the pain will lesson. Grief takes time. Experts say it takes at least a year, maybe two, to work through grief. Many women have gone before you in this pain, and they have experienced healing.
Caring for Yourself
After an Abortion
You feel sad and confused.You cannot sleep at night.When you do feel hungry, you reach for a drink or a cigarette.You can hardly get out of bed in the morning.You cry for hours.
(By Vicki Thorn, Executive Director
National Office of Post-Abortion Reconciliation and Healing)
Contact Project Rachel
1-888-456-HOPE or 703-841-2504 or email projectrachel@arlingtondiocese.org
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