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Religious Life for Men

What is consecrated life?

The word “consecrated” means set apart solely for God.

The word “life” refers to the person's state of life, their status in the church, which ultimately defines what responsibilities and rights apply to them.

Therefore a person who is considered to be living the “consecrated life” is someone who, living in a stable state of life recognized by the Church, has dedicated their whole life to God in imitation of Christ through the public profession of the Evangelical Counsels of Poverty, Chastity, and Obedience.

“The first duty of the consecrated life is to make visible the marvels wrought by God in the frail humanity of those who are called. They bear witness to these marvels not so much in words as by the eloquent language of a transfigured life, capable of amazing the world.” - Vita Consecrata #20

What are the Evangelical Counsels?

In Poverty, consecrated persons live a radical dependence on Christ for their material needs. In Chastity, consecrated persons give witness to their special and unique bond with Jesus Christ. In Obedience, consecrated persons sacrifice their own will to become God's instruments in the world.

“The Consecrated Life, deeply rooted in the example and teaching of Christ the Lord, is a gift of God the Father to his Church through the Holy Spirit. By the profession of the evangelical counsels the characteristic features of Jesus - the chaste, poor and obedient one - are made constantly "visible" in the midst of the world and the eyes of the faithful are directed towards the mystery of the Kingdom of God already at work in history, even as it awaits its full realization in heaven.” - Vita Consecrata #1

How does one go about discerning religious life?

Just as a couple discerning marriage spends time getting to know each other and determining whether or not their lives “fit” together, discerning the religious life requires that you get to know some communities to discover whether or not you “fit.”

Here are five questions you can ask yourself to help progress along the path of discerning God's plan for you.

Am I drawn to live religious family life with this particular community?

The term community usually refers to a particular group of religious who reside and work together as a family. As you interact with the religious brothers and priests of a community, ask yourself if you feel drawn to live this community family life with them.

What do they do?

The apostolate is the mission of the community. It is the work it has been “sent” to do to share in the mission of Christ in the world. Is it concerned with basic physical needs like food, shelter, or healing? Is it more spiritual or intellectual, like teaching or preaching, counseling, or liturgy? Is it more hidden, such as prayer or penance for the conversion of the world or reparations for sins?

Whatever the apostolate, is it something in which God has instilled in you an interest?

How do they live?

Every religious community has a rule of life, which governs every aspect of community life, from their habit, spirituality, apostolate, even how meals should be taken and how the members interact with one another.

Where do they come from?

What is the history of the order? Who are the founders? Are there any saints from the order? Inspirational members who've lived the rule of life perfectly offer the community examples to emulate and pray to, as well as give them direction, both personally and as a community, from the examples of their lives.

Who are they?

This is the ultimate question to ask, and it is answered with their charism, the way in which a particular order witnesses Christ and shares in His mission, at a particular time and in a particular culture.

In a general sense, a charism is a gift from God which helps build up the Church. For religious communities, the charism is the soul of the community, that which gives it purpose and motivation, and animates its action. Just as each person is distinct and can be identified by his personality, a religious community is identified by its charism.

The Next Step

As you get to know different communities and answer these questions about them, the most important question for anyone discerning a religious vocation is this: Who has God created me to be?

Spending time with God gives Him the chance to reveal this to you. You should also spend time with religious communities to see if you “fit”: visit them, experience their spirituality, their community life, and their apostolate. Learn more about some local religious orders below, and contact them as a means of continuing the process.

This article on the habits of religious can also help explain religious life.

Learn more about some nearby religious orders

(Orders are listed alphabetically. This list is not meant to be exhaustive.)

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Congregation of the Holy Spirit, C.S.Sp. (Spiritans)

Spiritan ministries in the U.S. have three areas of focus: education, evangelization and justice, and parish ministry.

Congregation of the Immaculate Heart of Mary (CICM) (Missionhurst)

Dedicated to sharing the hope and comfort of the Gospel, while relieving the suffering of our poorest, most neglected brothers and sisters in Christ.

Discalced Carmelite Friars (OCD)

The heirs of Saint Teresa of Avila and Saint John of the Cross, the Discalced Carmelite Friars are contemplative priests and brothers dedicated to a life of prayer, study, and apostolic works aimed at leading others to union with God.

Disciples of the Hearts of Jesus and Mary (dcjm)

The Disciples of the Hearts of Jesus and Mary lead families to holiness as they follow in the footsteps of St. John Paul II.

Dominicans (Order of Preachers)

The Dominican Friars continue an 800-year tradition of dedicating their lives to preaching the Truth, that all the world may come to know Jesus Christ. They serve in universities, parishes, international missions, military chaplaincies, television and radio.

Franciscan Friars TOR

Apostolic work includes parishes, colleges, high schools, houses of formation, campus ministry, missions in Brazil, social justice and hospital chaplaincies.

Josephites (SSJ)

Apostolic community of priests and brothers dedicated to spiritual, educational and social ministry to the African-American community.

Oblates of St. Francis de Sales, O.S.F.S.

High school and college teachers, parish work and campus ministry, retreats, inner city and overseas missions, Armed Forces chaplains, adult education and hospital ministry.

Order of Cistercians of the Strict Observance (OCSO) (Trappists)

A Roman Catholic contemplative religious order, part of the larger Cistercian family who follow the Rule of St Benedict, dedicated to seeking union with God, through Jesus Christ, in a community of sisters or brothers.

Youth Apostles Institute (YA)

A Public Association of the Faithful committed to evangelize, teach, advise, challenge and console youth.

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Videos on religious life for men

During the recent Year of Consecrated Life, the Arlington Catholic Herald produced these videos on religious orders in our diocese.

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